Welcome
This space introduces the work of Nifemi Olumide, a psychotherapist and writer whose thinking sits at the intersection of psychology, identity, and the stories we carry. Her work centres on the hidden patterns that govern survival strategies formed in childhood to the sophisticated emotional architectures adults build to succeed, connect, and protect themselves. Through writing, reflective practice, counselling, and thought leadership, Nifemi brings psychological precision and narrative insight to individuals, organisations, and global audiences seeking deeper understanding.
About Nifemi Olumide
Nifemi Olumide is a Nigerian-born psychotherapist, writer, and narrative psychologist whose work investigates how childhood survival patterns mature into the adults we become—brilliant, afraid, driven, and deeply complex.
Her upcoming book, The Adults We Become, offers a language for understanding high-functioning fear, overthinking, perfectionism, hypervigilance, and the invisible emotional engines that shape identity.
Nifemi’s work sits at the intersection of psychology, culture, faith, and human behaviour. She is known for her clarity, narrative depth, and her ability to articulate patterns people have lived with for years but never had words for.
She lives in Sydney with her husband, Adebayo.
Services
Nifemi Olumide brings together psychotherapy, narrative psychology, and behavioural insight to help individuals and organisations understand the patterns that shape their lives, relationships, and leadership. Through counselling, reflective practice sessions, workshops, and speaking engagements, she offers a clear and thoughtful approach to emotional intelligence, ambition, fear, self-awareness, and human behaviour. Her work is designed for people who value depth, clarity, and transformation.
Counselling
Individual counselling sessions tailored to your unique needs, focusing on personal growth and emotional well-being. Book your appointment today.
Speaking engagements
Invite Nifemi to speak at your corporate, educational, or faith-based institution. Topics include ambition, fear, childhood patterns, and emotional intelligence.
The adults we become
Explore Nifemi's forthcoming narrative-psychology book, "The Adults We Become," examining childhood survival patterns and their impact on adult life.
Podcast
Stay tuned for Nifemi's upcoming podcast, featuring insightful conversations on psychology, behaviour, and the journey of self-discovery.
About nifemi
Nifemi Olumide is a dedicated psychotherapist, behavioural specialist, and writer committed to helping individuals understand themselves and their behaviours. With a background rooted in both Nigerian and Australian cultures, Nifemi brings a unique perspective to her work. "The Adults We Become" is a testament to her passion for exploring the human condition and offering pathways to growth and well-being.
Insights and articles
Explore Nifemi Olumide's latest essays and articles on ambition, fear, childhood patterns, identity, and emotional intelligence. Gain valuable insights into the psychological frameworks that shape our lives.
"Nifemi has a unique ability to connect with her audience and provide insightful perspectives on complex psychological concepts. Her speaking engagements are both engaging and informative."
Dr. Sarah Jones
"Nifemi's counselling sessions have been incredibly helpful in navigating personal challenges and fostering emotional growth. Her empathetic and supportive approach makes a real difference."
Emily Brown
"Nifemi's book, 'The Adults We Become,' is a thought-provoking exploration of childhood patterns and their impact on adult life. A must-read for anyone interested in personal development."
David Lee
Contact nifemi
Location
Sydney, Australia